I stand for children. Yours today, and the child you once were.
There has always been a small spark in me that refused to go out. While I was explicitly told that my family’s abuse and dysfunction were “necessary” and “right”, some small part of me just couldn’t get on board. At 3, I believed there had to be something else possible, at 9, I planned to run away, and at 14, I was done with the lies. I began to believe in my power to make something different for myself. That part has only grown stronger in my chosen created family.
I believe every human deserves respect and dignity. Being young doesn’t mean you should be bullied or mistreated. This has made me a “black sheep” and meant I had to work against the grain to build my safe, mutually respectful, collaborative family. And I did it! And it’s worth it.
Neuroplasticity is the most exciting finding I’ve learned studying the brain. We can change, we can learn, we can grow, and we can move towards our goals at any age! I’ve changed my brain in countless ways, and I’ve had the great joy of celebrating with thousands of others who have healed their triggers, integrated their parts, increased their nervous system capacity, and reclaimed their personal power and authority to cultivate the family environment they desire. You can too!
Guiding Parents Toward Calmer, Connected Homes
Meet the dedicated coach behind S.U.R.E. Parenting.
Sami Bell
Parenting and Re-Parenting Coach, Author, Speaker, & Educator
My degree is in Elementary Education with additional certification in Early Childhood Education. I then completed Trust-Based Relational Intervention training through the Karyn Purvis Institute of Child Development, Trauma-Informed Parenting, and continued education through The Institute of Child Psychology and NICABM in Attachment, Trauma, and Healing.
My focus is on child development, secure attachment, accepting and empowering neurodivergent brains, healing from the past, and creating healthy homes free of the childhood trauma many of us faced.
I’m inspired by the thousands of parents who are working to do for their children what their parents didn’t have the tools to do for them. The evidence-based practices I teach in S.U.R.E. Parenting can be applied with children of all ages and with all neurotypes, including your own Inner Child if you’re not yet a parent. Cycle-breakers are my favorite people! Welcome.
I walk alongside you as you build security with yourself and your kids.
Hear from parents who transformed their homes.
I’ve been in Sami’s group for almost a year and it’s been hugely impactful to not only my parenting, but also my marriage and my own mental health. Coming from a rough childhood, I always knew I wanted to parent differently. I bought a bunch of parenting books, but got stuck trying to apply all the info to what was actually happening in my life. Sami bridges that gap with practical advice for whatever situations we bring up during the calls. To anybody thinking of joining, just give it a try. It could change your life.
Nicole B.
Nevada
“I wasn’t ready for the anxiety that came with having 2 young kids. I could barely keep it together and resorted to how I was parented growing up. Sami helped me climb out of that. She taught me how I can parent better and take care of myself too! I see them learning to do the same. It felt like a breath of fresh air after living in cigarette smoke my whole life.”
Erika M.
New Mexico
“Sami’s work and expertise changed my relationship with my kids in the best way. If you are looking for parenting support that is practical and easy to implement from an empathetic, trauma-informed, compassionate source, look no further!”
Sarah H.
Idaho
“Sami at S.U.R.E Parenting is such a knowledgeable and compassionate coach. Her coaching has been absolutely life-changing for my family as we’ve changed generational patterns and learned to tailor our interactions to our children’s individual needs.
If you are interested in breaking harmful patterns, I 1000% recommend S.U.R.E. Parenting.”
Martha D.
Kansas